This is who I'm thinking about. I met the east coast side of my family in the late 1990s and it changed my life. In their large (both in numbers and in height!), vibrant, loving, generous and supportive family I found a little place, developed new cherished framily (friend+family) (hello pk and one-eyed), and filled a familial need I'd had my whole life. Thanks, Skip, I'll miss you. Rest in peace, Harold David Meade, 1941-2007.